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Miriam Lake, 47, from Bradwell, saw stepdad convicted for historic abuse

 


Survivor Speaks Out After Stepdad's Early Release: A Call for Justice and Protection

Miriam Lake, a 47-year-old mother of four from Bradwell, has been left devastated after the release of her stepfather, Michael Egan, who was convicted for horrific abuse she suffered as a child. Egan, now 79, was freed today after serving just 19 months of a four-year sentence, a decision made under the government's controversial early release scheme aimed at alleviating prison overcrowding. This release has reignited Miriam’s trauma and raised serious concerns about the safety of domestic abuse survivors.


A Childhood of Horror

Miriam was only nine years old when her life turned into a nightmare at the hands of Egan. Subjected to relentless violence and mental cruelty, she endured unimaginable torment. From being forced to lick dog feces off Egan's shoes to being burnt with cigarettes and kicked until she coughed up blood, her childhood was marked by fear and pain. "He would laugh at me while I was showering, and the verbal abuse was relentless," she recounted, her voice filled with the weight of her past. Egan referred to her as a "rape baby" and told her she should have died in a fire, instilling a deep sense of worthlessness that would haunt her for years.


Despite the horrors she faced, Miriam's plight went largely unnoticed. Although her teachers reported suspicions of abuse to social services, the family frequently moved, allowing the abuse to slip through the cracks of the system. It wasn’t until Miriam's mother, Naomi Mitchell, finally left Egan in 1993 that the cycle of abuse appeared to have ended. However, the scars of those years remained, deeply affecting Miriam's mental health and day-to-day life.


Seeking Justice

Years later, after the death of her mother in 2017—a pivotal moment for Miriam—she found the courage to report Egan to the police. "When my mum died, I decided it was time for closure. I needed to know that this man would face justice," she explained. Initially, Egan received a suspended sentence for historic assault and child cruelty offenses in 2022, a decision that left Miriam feeling betrayed and powerless. "The judge said he was 'sadistic' and 'cruel,' but still didn't see the point in sending him to prison," she lamented.


However, public outrage over the leniency of the sentence led prosecutors to appeal, resulting in a four-year sentence. Yet even that felt inadequate to Miriam, who has been vocal about the lasting impact of Egan's actions on her life. "I have a panic disorder now; I can’t drive because it would put others at risk. I rely on public transport, which limits my job options and where I can go," she said, her frustration palpable.


The Impact of Early Release

With Egan's release today, Miriam's fears have intensified. "My concern is how domestic abuse victims will suffer as a result of this new early release law," she stated emphatically. "It sends a dangerous message to perpetrators: that their actions are not taken seriously and that they can be released back into society after serving a fraction of their sentence."


Miriam believes that the early release scheme puts survivors at greater risk, making them less likely to report abuse. "They might think, 'What’s the point of coming forward if the perpetrator will be back on the streets in no time?'" she argued. The psychological burden of reliving past traumas during court proceedings can deter many victims from seeking justice, especially when they know the potential consequences.



A Call for Change

Miriam is not just speaking out for herself but for all survivors who face similar struggles. "Women are incredibly brave to fight back against their abusers, but releasing these individuals puts their safety on the line," she said passionately. "Survivors need not just protection but justice. The government must reevaluate the impact of these policies on victims of domestic violence."


In the wake of Egan's release, Miriam has become an advocate for change, hoping to raise awareness about the dangers of early release schemes and the need for more robust protections for survivors. "We need to ensure that our justice system recognizes the severity of domestic abuse and provides real safety for those who have suffered," she asserted.


Living with the Past

Miriam's life has been irrevocably altered by her experiences, and she continues to navigate the challenges that stem from her childhood trauma. "Even with medication, the panic disorder will always be a part of me," she reflected. "It’s a lifetime of fear, something that happened to me as a child and a teenager, and I carry that burden every day."


Despite the pain, Miriam remains resilient. As a grandmother now, she hopes to break the cycle of abuse and create a safe and loving environment for her family. "I want my children and grandchildren to know that they are loved and valued. They deserve to grow up free from fear," she said, her determination shining through.


Miriam’s story is a stark reminder of the ongoing struggles faced by survivors of domestic abuse and the urgent need for systemic change in how society addresses these issues. Her fight for justice and protection continues, and she hopes that by sharing her story, she can inspire others to speak out and advocate for themselves and those who cannot. "We must do better. We owe it to all the survivors out there," she concluded, a sentiment that resonates deeply in a world still grappling with the realities of domestic violence.

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